I hope that all of my readers have realized how much I love metaphors. If not, please feel free to re-read any of my past posts and try to relate lessons learned in running to lessons in life (except for the A Runner's Story posts--those were just stories).
It's been almost two years since I began this blog with the intent of not only passing along my thoughts and experiences related to the sport I love, but also of sharing my life lessons, which God inspired via running. It's now time to end this series of writings in hopes of starting another one soon (I have no idea what else I would write about. Any suggestions?).
My last confession is this: while running made for a good metaphor for relationships--the ups and downs, the work, the effort, the pains and joys, the frustrations and victories--it failed in one major aspect. Running does not provide a two-way road for communication with its runners; it does not give feedback.
What is a relationship without communication? Arguments, affection, compromise, camaraderie, fights, forgiveness, sharing emotions and encouragement.
The Bible provides countless examples of friendships, but also gives good advice on how to be a good friend. Take these, for example:
"Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each others' faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts..."--Colossians 3: 12-15
"There are 'friends' who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother."--Proverbs 18:24
"As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend."--Proverbs 27:17
In the literal sense, Running has not been a "friend" to me. Although, it has introduced and inspired some amazing friendships within my life thus far. In fact, I'm marrying one of my best friends who also shares a passion for running. If I can't call Running a true friend, I'm happy to give it some credit for certain relationships I've enjoyed throughout the years--acquaintances, seasonal friends, lifetime friends, and future friends.
It's been real. Thanks for reading. I'm out.
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